Much of the sex toy market is aimed at solo pleasure. Which is great, but sometimes, you want to include another person in your passionate romp. It goes without saying that those people in same-sex relationships have very different needs to those in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex.
The needs are no doubt different, but the possibilities are also exciting and certainly worth exploring. If you’ve grown bored of your routine with a bullet vibrator and want to inject some spice into your relationship, here are some of the best toys you should try.
A traditional strap-on doesn’t provide much pleasure for one party, so if you want to double your pleasure from penetrative sex, the strapless strap-on is the answer. One partner wears the shaft internally and uses this to control penetration of the other partner. From G Spot stimulation to the unique textured pad at the base which makes for some toe-curling grinding, this toy from Evoke really has it all.
The magic wand has reached near-mythical status and is an essential piece of kit for all pleasure seekers. Most have a built-in power source, so no need to worry about the batteries running out right before you climax. Couples who aren’t into penetrative sex and don’t want to have to resort to penis-shaped toys to orgasm will love getting to grips with the powerful vibrations of the magic wand.
Pick up a couple of these super discreet remote control panty teasers and you’ll soon see what all the fuss is about. The device slips quietly into any underwear and delivers 12 speeds of vibration for waves of pleasure at the touch of a button. The key here is to switch the controls over so you can turn your partner on at the touch of a button. Upgrade a quiet night in or take it out on the town for some seriously risque fun.
If you want to pleasure your partner like never before and feel like you have magic fingers in the process, then finger vibrators are the answer. The more up-front big sister of the finger sleeve, these discreet little tools can transform your bedroom offering. When used in combination with other forms of stimulation, your partner will be writhing around with pleasure in no time.
Scientists have discovered that your nipples respond the same way as your clitoris during sex. Some women can even reach orgasm through nipple stimulation alone. There’s no point ignoring a whole pleasure centre. That would be like going to Disneyland and only going on one ride. Nipple clamps not only look cute but they also increase sensitivity so every touch, kiss and nibble will feel earth-shattering.
Control play is one way to heighten tension and interest in the bedroom. Simple restraints can put you in control so you can drive them wild with your touch. If handcuffs are just a little too kinky, there are plenty of entry-level restraints available, including these silk restraints. Pair them with a blindfold, some scented candles and body oil and you’ve got a night of passion for two.
An often ignored area of sexual pleasure for lesbians. Most anal toys are marketed to men, but there’s plenty of pleasure to be found in this particular toy aisle. From anal beads to butt plugs, there’s no end to the options available. You can even use a strapless strap-on for anal fun, just be sure to wash it between use. Better yet, always wrap toys with a condom if you’re planning to use them anywhere near the anus. Check out our complete guide to anal sex toys for more information.
You can have too much lube, but a little lube will go a long way. If you’re planning to use any of the sex toys mentioned above, be sure to use a water-based lube to increase pleasure and prevent any unwanted friction. We’ve written this complete guide to lube to help you understand the different types available and which one you need for your favourite toy. Keep a bottle of lube and a bottle of massage oil to hand so you’re always ready for some passionate action.